I need advice from the men of RB...

[Mixtape]

you know what it sounds to me like a jealous love sick romantic forreal, or hes a player and is doing his game...stop calling him, wait for him to call you and move to maryland... just kidding, but no seriously just dont call him anymore....be done.....move one with your life....try to find someone else that makes you just as happy, if he calls while you got a boyfriend then its his damn lose to let you go in the first place....just my thoughts PEACE...

P.S.
no really move to maryland

[The One!]

Boo dig this, u need to find something to help u occupy your time. That way u won't think about him as much. Chill with ya girls or something.Remember u don't win by chasing or fighting fire with fire. Love is based on trust, so how can he say he loves u when he thinks u firted with his friend. Look here's my advise smoke a blunt(if ya smoke) and call him. If the nigga don't answer, hell fuck him, just come to florida
I'll break ya off boo.

words from The One!

[Keyser]

^ well thats some wank advice "the one" and only idiot...............

Am pretty insecure with my g/f at the moment, she cheated on me seven months back and i still get insecure about it but we talk things over n reasures me etc and i trust her now, but because your bf isnt answering the phone then i would travel to see him and try to work things out, if he ignores u like he once did then dont get depressed about it, because he obviously doesnt care about your feelings if he knows he's upsetting you, basically he isnt worth the trouble if he doesnt care and is so stubborn not to talk to you, then you will stop loving him because you tried your hardest and will find out he isnt worth it, Love only works if they are 2 of you that have the same feelings, 1 person cant love there partner and he/she doesnt love him/her, its more lust than anything, good luck anyway, but thats my advice to you.

[D.V.R.a.k.a.M.C.]

Stop calling him. IF you keep calling him that'll make him think you desperatley need him. You shouldn't need him hopefully. But just stop calling, one day he'll probably end up calling you begging you to come back.

[Transmogrify]

Bounce is definetely right about him being a hopeless romantic. I too am a hopeless romantic and I may see why this is happening. Hes the jealous type and is too insecure about his masculinity to let you win soo easy. In his situation I would want you back but bite my nose to spite my face. Your constant calling is driving him away, it boosts his confidence as a "ladie's man" and could get anyone if he could get you. I wants you but doesn't think he needs you anymore. Deep down, he knows he does though.

The only way to win over a romantic such as him, you have to prove that you understand his stance and how to be romantic. Cut off all contact with him for 2 weeks-1 month. Then send him a plain letter written on compostition paper telling
telling him how you feel but realize that he needs to be him. Several days after you estimate he read the letter, show up with a single rose in hand, asking for him back. Enlist help from one of your male friends, or a strong woman and don't allow him out of the house untill you've gotten in and made him talk everything out. He will cry and feel more attatched to you.

If that doesn't work, you have to get in physical relationship with someone new to make you forget about him. Its just time to move on by then.

[Ron B. Vicious]

TWO whole girlfriends? AND you hit it? You're obviously a real charmer.

Maybe when you're able to come into a thread without trying to brag by using the expression "hit it" you'll understand that admitting you love someone and wanting to make things right with them does not mean you have no spine or self-respect.

LOL i don't know why i quoted that just found it funny

Ok well it seems he has layed it out for you, he is going to stay with that as long as he knows he can have you whenever he wants you, pull back, stop calling when he realizes his phone is no longer ringing he'll realize he doesn't have you anymore which will force him to make a decision. Either he'll call you and appologize or he won't, and that'll be about the best advice i can give you, i must leave now i've been serious far too long, i came here thinking this was going to be a 'my boyfriend wants a 3some' threads so i can make some jokes, i'm off to make fun of people, holla at me if you want some more advice

[Sir Cedrych]

stop calling him. just let it go, if you really care about him, and love him, you'd let him go. the things we love and cherish the most, are the hardest things to let go, you'll hurt for a few, but in the end it'll make you stronger as a person emotionally. He's acting shady and doesnt want to be comforted so dont grant his wishes. He probably doesnt want you in his life, so go on with yours and live your life as if theres no tomorrow and live it to the fullest. He's playing mind games with you, this is somewhat apart of his plan, i did this before kind of...so i can give the best advice for this type of situation somehwhat.

-Dr. Cedric

(Psychologist In The Making)

[Rex]

You gotta let go.
If you want something bad enough, you'll do what's needed.
If you want him bad enough, you'll respect his privacy wishes.
If it's meant to work out, it will.
But you getting more and more emotionally distressed won't help one way or another.
Let him go, and if he loves you the way you love him, he'll come back.
If not, you'll know you just have to move on.

[DaGyrlRemarqabL]

Wow. You guys are on point. Thank you all so much for offerring serious suggestions and thoughts...It's definitely a lot to think about.

"he is expecting you to break away from your life, drive down and reclaim your stake in his heart. Sounds gay, but some guys are like that, if you really care schedule some time off and forget calling him go down and demand to see him and tell him how you feel. Someone so insecure is going to doubt you and the relationship possibilites any other way. "

Yeah...He is definitely insecure. Many if not all of his past girlfriends have cheated on and betrayed him, so he's extra sensitive to other guys being interested, I guess.

"Hes the jealous type and is too insecure about his masculinity to let you win soo easy. In his situation I would want you back but bite my nose to spite my face. "

You're exactly right. He's very stubborn. And during the short times I was able to get him on the phone, one of the things he said was that I made him look like a fool. His pride was damaged by what he thought was a public display on my part of flirting with one of his friends. [Even though I didn't.] But anyway, now he is trying to save face by hurting me and withdrawing all of his emotions so I can't "make a fool of him" again. And really all I want to do is show him that I'm serious about wanting him and only him, but he is not willing to let me prove it because he's still sour about what happened.

That's a valid theory isn't it? I mean can you really just go from being all out in love with someone to just hating them in the course of a day or two? Isn't it near impossible for him to have no feelings for me whatsoever all of the sudden?

I mean I understand the effectiveness of not calling...but I don't see how that can make him realize how much he means to me like going there would. Then again, going there is a big risk seeing as how he may not even see me.
Ugh.
I just can't decide what to do. I guess I just have to make a decision and go through with it.

Thanks again fellas for the input.

[Bigg E Z]

..They've been runing things from the Veteranes Hospital!

[ILLunatic]

Stop calling the kid, wait about 2 weeks, then show up at his house.

[Gremlin]

Hes not the only man alive
Meet a new one
Stfu about this guy and forget it

[Facts Machine]

He's obviously a jealous fuck. Why would you want to be with someone who's gonna get upset at you over nothing? See, there's probably so much more to this story... unless he actually gets mad over SHIT.

[Chrit.]

Seriously... just switch over to me.

You know all headaches will be gone